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A Family Affair, New Years Resolutions- Guest Post

One of my favorite bloggers, Rosann, 

from Christian SuperMom has turned her New years Resolutions into a family affair!  

Family Goal Planning

*Guest Post*
I'm starting to think back over the year 2011.  Despite the fact that not much seems to have changed in our family's employment or income status, I recognize that God was very present and all the things I can smile about were actually blessings poured down from Heaven.   For that matter, even the situations that were less than joyful, God made beautiful in His own way.

I've shared  before that I'm big on starting family traditions.  New Years is no exception.

Every December, the week after Christmas, my husband and I start individually reflecting on the year we're about to kiss goodbye and start planning for the year ahead.  We think of the good times and smile knowing God blessed us abundantly.  We think of the bad times, and again we smile knowing God's mighty hand never stopped working.

Sometime before midnight on New Year's Eve, we each write down our individual goals for the coming year.  Usually we section them off into categories as such:
  • Health:  Mental, Physical, and Emotional
  • Financial:  Income, Savings, Debt Reduction, etc…
  • Spiritual:  Church, Individual, Family, Marriage
  • Family:  Vacations, Lifestyle, Parenting, Marriage
  • Other Relationships:  Extended family, Friendships, etc…
Then we sit down together, sharing and discussing the previous year and our goals for the coming year.  What's really cool is that often times, Mark and I have almost the same list written down.   A sign that we communicate well and tend to really be in tune with what's important to one another.

When our New Year's goal conversation is concluded we swap lists.  I take his and keep it in my wallet.  He takes mine and keeps it in his wallet.  Throughout the year, we inevitably come across the list and pull it out to remind each other of where we might be falling short or praise one another for those we've achieved.
Most years we make great strides in achieving our goals.  However, life happens, so rarely do we ever achieve every goal we've written down.  But we always see some improvement, which we count as a win because we ended up better than we were before.

This year, I'm hoping to implement a few changes to our tradition though.

First, how can we plan for the year to come without first seeking God and His will for us?  So we will start the week in prayer, praising God for the year past and asking for wisdom and discernment for the year to come.

Second, we will include our children in the goal planning process.   It's never too early to teach the importance of setting goals and feeling the sense of accomplishment when they are achieved.   Since our girls are still young,  their goals will not be as complex as ours.  And since some of our grown up goals are really not things we need to concern our children with, we will not share all of our goals with them, but will choose a few to share so they can help encourage us as well.

I'm thinking we'll keep it to a simple goal each of them can work toward for the year.  For example, Faith (6) could try to achieve memorizing the names of the books of the Bible in 2012.  Abby (3) could work toward using her fork and spoon for eating during meals instead of using them as weapons or drum sticks against the table.

Of course, we will talk and pray with our daughters, allowing them to choose their own goal to work toward for the year.   And then we will support their efforts,  helping and encouraging  them along the way.
One thing is for sure.  

In 2012 we, as a family, will seek first God's kingdom.  For our relationship with Him is far more important than any goal we could ever set for ourselves or any accomplishment.  Our love for Christ is far more important than our job, our wealth, our successes, or our knowledge.   Without Christ, we wouldn't have JOY nor would we have LOVE or LIFE.

How does your family plan for the year to come?  Share your special traditions in the comments below.

~Until next time, may God bless you with a heart for Him in 2012!

I'd ♥ if you visited her blog HERE and left Rosann a comment letting her know you're from Rise Above Your Limits!



  1. How great that Rosann gets her family involved in the New Years Resolutions.

    I am headed over to visit her blog.

  2. Becky, thank you so much for the special mention through posting this on your site. I appreciate you so much. Wishing you and your family a beautiful New Year!

    ~Many Blessings,

  3. That is so wonderful to involve the family! I'm going to try this :)

  4. Let me see, Abby Girl and I ... that makes 2 in this household....our resolution is to love each other more than we did in 2011....I promise to give her healthier treats as I take on new healthy recipes of going raw and green smoothies and juicing my veggies.....Look out skinny here I come.....

  5. How wonderful! Great idea getting the whole family in on it!

  6. What a great way to approach the new year. Hubs and I are going to take a lesson from you and swap lists. Thanks for the idea!

  7. I LOVE the idea of the New Year's tradition and writing down goals & trading with your spouse... Wonderful! Thanks for the inspiration! :)


  8. My New Years Resolution is to read labels more. I need to! I had a really bad allergic reaction to methosulphate, which is in some lotions. I have to read the labels, so I don't have problems like this again. No hives for me please.


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