As
the Author of ChristianSuperMom, I’ve shared in my writing that my
husband and I have faced a lengthy season of unemployment in our home.
As a result, in May 2011 a handful of women who happened to be going
through the same thing started reaching out to me via email. They all
seemed to be asking me the same questions. How do you cope? What do
you do to stay strong in your faith? How do you keep your marriage
whole with all of these difficult and overwhelming emotions like
resentment, anger, and depression?
I
spent a lot of time praying for these women and their hearts. I deeply
understood their feelings of hopelessness. I also spent a lot of time
crying and struggling through my own battle with it in our home. Being
the wife to an unemployed man is a very lonely place to be. I can talk
to my husband about anything, including my concerns over our
circumstances, yet I always saw how releasing my concerns to him would
send him spiraling into a deeper funk than he had been in before I
opened up to him. So over time I would avoid discussing how I felt.
And what I really felt was that few people truly understood what I was
going through emotionally. I searched all over the internet looking for
some kind of Christian support to turn to for encouragement, prayers,
or even just a non-biased ear to spill my heart out to. I was always
disappointed in my search. There were no books, no support groups, not
even many helpful online articles or websites that spoke to me – the
wife. Knowing there was a need for this type of topic to be discussed, I
started praying over how God wanted me to grow and what He specifically
wanted me to do that would help others in the same situation.
Soon
after, I felt Him nudge me to start writing about my journey and how
I’ve coped. It started as a simple blog post, until I realized it was
too long to publish as such. Then I decided to make it a special
report, and I continued to write. Days later, I realized what I had
written was not a report, but rather a book. I wanted so desperately to
publish the book in August. God had other plans though. Instead, he
sent me and my daughters on vacation to California for two weeks for
FREE! When I returned, the busyness of life swept me away and I was
training to run a half-marathon. I was too exhausted to pay much
attention to my book project and I’d lost confidence in it. In October,
the week before my half marathon, I had a major emotional meltdown and
it was during that week that I made my mind up to focus as much effort
as possible on completing the project God was asking me to do. I pulled
out the draft of my book and completely rewrote it (only God could have
put those words to paper,) adding a coping tip to the beginning of each
chapter and a challenge at the end of each chapter. God fueled my
passion and drive for the project and I finally published it to Amazon
Kindle on January 2nd. Since then, I haven’t been able to get Romans 8:28 out of my mind. And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.
2. What was the hardest part of writing your book?
It was very hard to get past my own lack of confidence and hard core perfectionism though. Even now I’ll turn my Kindle on and start critiquing my own book. I spent a lot of time worrying that I wasn’t smart enough or worthy enough to write a book. Yet throughout the process God continued to remind me that He doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called. This is His project and He will make sure it gets into the hands of those who need it most.
3. Could you share with us a few things you learned while writing your book?
I think the biggest lesson I learned is that everything happens in God’s timing and not a moment before. I mentioned before that I wanted to publish this book back in August and it was nowhere near ready for publishing at that time. I also wanted to publish it before the end of the year. Instead, God made me wait until the beginning of 2012. I’m not sure why, but I know His reason will one day be revealed and I’ll nod in understanding.
4. What new interests have you developed because of your experiences that lead you to write your book?
Here’s a short description of the book:
One
of the most difficult issues women face in today's economy is dealing
with the overwhelming emotions that surface when their husband suddenly
finds himself unemployed. It becomes even more difficult to cope when
the season of unemployment becomes a lengthy one. Unfortunately, there
aren't many resources available to help women cope with the often
powerfully negative, yet normal emotions they face each day.
Fear. Depression. Resentment. Anger. Bitterness. Embarrassment. Humiliation. Loneliness.
Fear. Depression. Resentment. Anger. Bitterness. Embarrassment. Humiliation. Loneliness.
If
you're going through an unemployment crisis in your home, take the
journey with Rosann as she shares her story and the many ways she has
turned negative emotion into healthy, productive, faith-filled JOY.
In UnEMPLOYED Faith, there are 10 different coping tips and a personal challenge presented at the end of each chapter. Those who read the book in its entirety and apply the coping tips and challenges to their life will experience a sense of peace and JOY like never before.
In UnEMPLOYED Faith, there are 10 different coping tips and a personal challenge presented at the end of each chapter. Those who read the book in its entirety and apply the coping tips and challenges to their life will experience a sense of peace and JOY like never before.
See what others are saying about UnEMPLOYED Faith. http://unemployedfaith.com/ reviews
You can purchase this book on Amazon for just $4.99 by clicking HERE
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Note from Author:Just wanted to add that if anyone is concerned about not having a Kindle or other type of e-reader, you don't need one to be able to enjoy UnEMPLOYED Faith.
Amazon has a link for a FREE downloadable e-reader for your smart phone, PC, or iPad. I have the link for their add in my sidebar on my website. Simply click on that link, download your e-reader, and then enjoy any and all ebooks (which are often cheaper than hardback) right from your chosen device.
For the purpose of this giveaway, the winner will get a PDF version of the book.
Blessings to everyone!
~Rosann
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Becky, thanks so much for doing this Author Interview. Have a blessed day!
ReplyDelete~Rosann
Considering my hubby is unemployed, I would love to win this book!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely interview!! Great job Rosann!
ReplyDeleteSuper interview Becky!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a good interview, and I think a book like this is needed, I have not seen any. Especially from a Christian perspective.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate all of your lovely comments about the interview and the book. Debbie, I'm saying a prayer for you and your husband right now. I hope you'll subscribe to my blog at UnemployedFaith.com so you can get regular encouragement as you endure this difficult and scary time.
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
~Rosann
Lots of people I know have lost their jobs. Some have found lower paying ones and some are still unemployed.
ReplyDeleteThree of my close family members have become unemployed and two have moved on to lower paying jobs.
ReplyDelete@Becky, nice interview. It's so appropriate in these times. @Rosann, great interview and it's great to see more about your ebook :)
ReplyDeleteI think this is a needed subject in today's unemployment issue...Nice review also
ReplyDeleteJust wanted to add that if anyone is concerned about not having a Kindle or other type of e-reader, you don't need one to be able to enjoy UnEMPLOYED Faith.
ReplyDeleteAmazon has a link for a FREE downloadable e-reader for your smart phone, PC, or iPad. I have the link for their add in my sidebar on my website. Simply click on that link, download your e-reader, and then enjoy any and all ebooks (which are often cheaper than hardback) right from your chosen device.
For the purpose of this giveaway, the winner will get a PDF version of the book.
Blessings to everyone!
~Rosann
This is not a entry but a comment. What a great topic for a book especially for those Christians that are unemlployed. Thanks. Mrs. Shopper@ http://www.simplyshopandsave.ca
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